To parents: Do you want your children to be obedient, out of love or fear? The most ideal parent-child relationship is that parents let their children know, “Even if you love me very much, you do n’t need to listen to all of your life choices!” Regarding education, you should not focus only on children to be “obedient.” Teach children to “reject”, “sell for help”, “express their own ideas” and “the ability to make decisions.” Give your child a chance to wrestle within a safe range.
致父母們:你希望你的孩子聽話,是出自愛或恐懼? 最理想的親子關係是,父母讓孩子知道「即便你很愛我,你人生的所有選擇,也不需要都聽我的!」關於教育,不該只focus要求孩子「聽話」,應該盡可能早點教會孩子「拒絕」「求救」「表達自己的想法」與「做決定的能力」。安全範圍內,給孩子摔跤的機會。